Perspective
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Freedom from expectations
This 2025, I wish for freedom from expectations, those from others and myself. This 2025, I wish to just be myself, to just exist without worrying about what others think.… Read more.
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Well, what is perpetual youth to you?
To me, it has nothing to do with appearance or even personality. I’m autistic and I have ADHD, so I’m perpetually seen as being “immature” by most neurotypicals who I… Read more.
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Do we actually live this long?
I don’t know if I’m going to reach 100 years old, but if I do, this is what I would tell myself, and ask myself. Read more.
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Dream jobs aren’t real, at least not to me.
It is pointless to have a dream job when you aren’t happy with the way that work is structured in the first place. This applies, at least, to me. Because,… Read more.
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Loneliness is political. Solitude is a luxurious choice.
Loneliness has been considered a bad thing for a while. Of course, there is scientific data to prove just that. Loneliness is considered to be just as deadly as being… Read more.
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A long life might be torture, at least from my perspective
I would much rather live a life well-lived, rather than this security blanket of safety that I currently have no choice but to stick to. I was a sheltered kid… Read more.
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I refuse to reduce my clutter, here’s why…
I literally have ADHD and cleaning up disorients my OCD. That’s it, that’s literally all it is. I have pretty much stopped reducing physical clutter because it just does not… Read more.
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I feel invisible, so I want the world to have more empathy.
I now realize that I was forced to become an introvert. It genuinely wasn’t a choice that I made, it was just who I am and have always been. I can’t… Read more.
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I relive the past every single day: CPTSD, anxiety, and PD-NOS
What’s it like to have CPTSD and a personality disorder? For me, the past is where my mind lies all the time and, just like many others, the past gives… Read more.
Fornesus, the Observer 